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94% of the women in America are beautiful and the rest hang out around here.


A bachelor is a man who never made the same mistake once.


A bachelor is a selfish, undeserving guy who has cheated some woman out

of a divorce.

        -- Don Quinn


A bachelor is an unaltared male.


A bachelor never quite gets over the idea that he is a thing of beauty

and a boy for ever.

        -- Helen Rowland


A bad marriage is like a horse with a broken leg, you can shoot

the horse, but it don't fix the leg.


A beautiful man is paradise for the eyes, hell for the soul, and

purgatory for the purse.


A beautiful woman is a blessing from Heaven, but a good cigar is a smoke.

        -- Kipling


A beautiful woman is a picture which drives all beholders nobly mad.

        -- Emerson


A boy can learn a lot from a dog: obedience, loyalty, and the importance

of turning around three times before lying down.

        -- Robert Benchley


A boy gets to be a man when a man is needed.

        -- John Steinbeck


A Chicago salesman was about to check into a St. Louis hotel when he noticed

a very charming woman staring admiringly at him.  He walked over and spoke

with her for a few minutes, then returned to the front desk, where they checked

in as Mr. and Mrs.

    After a very pleasurable three-day stay, the man approached the front

desk and told the clerk he was checking out.  In a few minutes, he was handed

a bill for $2500.

    "There must be some mistake," the salesman said.  "I've been here for

only three days."

    "Yes, sir," the clerk replied.  "But your wife has been here a month

and a half."


A Code of Honour: never approach a friend's girlfriend or wife with mischief

as your goal.  There are too many women in the world to justify that sort of

dishonourable behaviour.  Unless she's really attractive.

        -- Bruce J. Friedman, "Sex and the Lonely Guy"


A diplomat is man who always remembers a woman's birthday but never her age.

        -- Robert Frost


A diplomatic husband said to his wife, "How do you expect me to remember

your birthday when you never look any older?"


    A domineering man married a mere wisp of a girl.  He came back from

his honeymoon a chastened man.  He'd become aware of the will of the wisp.


A figure with curves always offers a lot of interesting angles.


A flashy Mercedes-Benz roared up to the curb where a cute young miss stood

waiting for a taxi.

    "Hi," said the gentleman at the wheel.  "I'm going west."

    "How wonderful," came the cool reply.  "Bring me back an orange."


A fool and his honey are soon parted.


A fox is a wolf who sends flowers.

        -- Ruth Weston


A gentleman is a man who wouldn't hit a lady with his hat on.

        -- Evan Esar

        [ And why not?  For why does she have his hat on?  Ed.]


A gentleman never strikes a lady with his hat on.

        -- Fred Allen


A girl and a boy bump into each other -- surely an accident.

A girl and a boy bump and her handkerchief drops -- surely another accident.

But when a girl gives a boy a dead squid -- *____that ___had __to ____mean _________something*.

        -- S. Morganstern, "The Silent Gondoliers"


A girl with a future avoids the man with a past.

        -- Evan Esar, "The Humor of Humor"


A girl's best friend is her mutter.

        -- Dorothy Parker


A girl's conscience doesn't really keep her from doing anything wrong--

it merely keeps her from enjoying it.


A good man always knows his limitations.

        -- Harry Callahan


A good marriage would be between a blind wife and deaf husband.

        -- Michel de Montaigne


A guy has to get fresh once in a while so a girl doesn't lose her confidence.


A hammer sometimes misses its mark - a bouquet never.


A husband is what is left of the lover after the nerve has been extracted.

        -- Helen Rowland


A lady is one who never shows her underwear unintentionally.

        -- Lillian Day


A man always needs to remember one thing about a beautiful woman.

Somewhere, somebody's tired of her.


A man always remembers his first love with special tenderness, but after

that begins to bunch them.

        -- Mencken


A man arrived home early to find his wife in the arms of his best friend,

who swore how much they were in love.  To quiet the enraged husband, the

lover suggested, "Friends shouldn't fight, let's play gin rummy.  If I win,

you get a divorce so I can marry her.  If you win, I promise never to see

her again.  Okay?"

"Alright," agreed the husband.  "But how about a quarter a point

on the side to make it interesting?"


A man can have two, maybe three love affairs while he's married.  After

that it's cheating.

        -- Yves Montand


A man does not look behind the door unless he has stood there himself.

        -- Du Bois


A man in love is incomplete until he is married.  Then he is finished.

        -- Zsa Zsa Gabor, "Newsweek"


A man is already halfway in love with any woman who listens to him.

        -- Brendan Francis


A man is like a rusty wheel on a rusty cart,

He sings his song as he rattles along and then he falls apart.

        -- Richard Thompson


A man may be so much of everything that he is nothing of anything.

        -- Samuel Johnson


A man may sometimes be forgiven the kiss to which he is not entitled,

but never the kiss he has not the initiative to claim.


A man sank into the psychiatrist's couch and said, "I have a

terrible problem, Doctor.  I have a son at Harvard and another son at

Princeton; I've just gifted each of them with a new Ferrari; I've got

homes in Beverly Hills, Palm Beach, and a co-op in New York; and I've

got a thriving ranch in Venezuela.  My wife is a gorgeous young actress

who considers my two mistresses to be her best friends."

    The psychiatrist looked at the patient, confused.  "Did I miss

something?  It sounds to me like you have no problems at all."

    "But, Doctor, I only make $175 a week."


A man took his wife deer hunting for the first time.  After he'd given her

some basic instructions, they agreed to separate and rendezvous later.  Before

he left, he warned her if she should fell a deer to be wary of hunters who

might beat her to the carcass and claim the kill.  If that happened, he told

her, she should fire her gun three times into the air and he would come to

her aid.

    Shortly after they separated, he heard a single shot, followed quickly

by the agreed upon signal.  Running to the scene, he found his wife standing

in a small clearing with a very nervous man staring down her gun barrel.

    "He claims this is his," she said, obviously very upset.

    "She can keep it, she can keep it!" the wide-eyed man replied.  "I

just want to get my saddle back!"


A man usually falls in love with a woman who asks the kinds of questions

he is able to answer.

        -- Ronald Colman


A man was griping to his friend about how he hated to go home after a

late card games.

    "You wouldn't believe what I go through to avoid waking my wife,"

he said.  "First, I kill the engine a block away from the house and coast

into the garage.  Then I open the door slowly, take off my shoes, and

tiptoe to our room.  But just as I'm about to slide into bed, she always

wakes up and gives me hell."

    "I make a big racket when I go home," his friend replied.

    "You do?"

    "Sure.  I honk the horn, slam the door, turn on all the lights,

stomp up to the bedroom and give my wife a big kiss.  `Hi, Alice,' I say.

`How about a little smooch for your old man?'"

    "And what does she say?" his friend asked in disbelief.

    "She doesn't say anything," his buddy replied.  "She always pretends

she's asleep."


A man was kneeling by a grave in a cemetery, crying and praying very loudly,

    "Oh why..eeeee did you die...eeeeee, Oh Why..eeeeee,

why did you Di......eeee"

The caretaker walks up, pardons himself and asks politely,

    "Excuse me, sir, but I've been seeing you for hours now,

carrying on at this grave.  You must have been very close to the deceased."

    "No, I never met him.  Oh why....eeeee did you dieeeeee,

why....eeeee did you.."

    "Sir, you say you never met this person, yet you carry on so?

Tell, me who is buried here?"

    "My wife's first husband."


A man was talking to his best friend about his married life.  "You know," he

says, "I really trust my wife, and I think she has always been faithful to

me, but there's *always* that doubt.  There's *always* that little doubt."

    "Yeah, I know what you mean," his friend replies.

    "Well, buddy, I've got to leave on a business trip this weekend,

and I wonder... well... would you watch my house while I'm gone?  I trust

her, it's just that there's *always* that doubt."

    The friend agreed to help out and two weeks later gave his report.

    "I've got some bad news for you," says the friend.  "The evening

after you left I saw a strange car pull up in front of your house.  A man

got out of the car and went in the house and had dinner with your wife.

After dinner they went upstairs and I saw your wife kissing him.  Then, he

took off his shirt and she took off her blouse.  And then the light went


    "*Then* what happened?" said the husband, his eyes opening wide.

    "Well, I don't know," replied the friend, "it was too dark to see."

    "Damn!" roared the husband.  "You see what I mean?  There's *always*

that doubt!"


A man without a woman is like a statue without pigeons.


A man wrapped up in himself makes a very small package.


A man's gotta know his limitations.

        -- Clint Eastwood, "Dirty Harry"


A modest woman, dressed out in all her finery, is the most tremendous object

in the whole creation.

        -- Goldsmith


A mother takes twenty years to make a man of her boy, and another woman

makes a fool of him in twenty minutes.

        -- Frost


A pedestal is as much a prison as any small, confined space.

        -- Gloria Steinem


A pretty woman can do anything; an ugly woman must do everything.


A psychiatrist is a fellow who asks you a lot of expensive questions

your wife asks you for nothing.

        -- Joey Adams


    A pushy romeo asked a gorgeous elevator operator, "Don't all these

stops and starts get you pretty worn out?"  "It isn't the stops and starts

that get on my nerves, it's the jerks."


A real gentleman never takes bases unless he really has to.

        -- Overheard in an algebra lecture.


A Roman divorced from his wife, being highly blamed by his friends, who

demanded, "Was she not chaste?  Was she not fair?  Was she not fruitful?"

holding out his shoe, asked them whether it was not new and well made.

Yet, added he, none of you can tell where it pinches me.

        -- Plutarch


    A Scotsman was strolling across High Street one day wearing his kilt.

As he neared the far curb, he noticed two young blondes in a red convertible

eyeing him and giggling.  One of them called out, "Hey, Scotty!  What's worn

under the kilt?"

    He strolled over to the side of the car and asked, "Ach, lass, are you

SURE you want to know?"  Somewhat nervously, the blonde replied yes, she did

really want to know.

    The Scotsman leaned closer and confided, "Why, lass, nothing's worn

under the kilt, everything's in perfect workin' order!"


A sharper perspective on this matter is particularly important to feminist

thought today, because a major tendency in feminism has constructed the

problem of domination as a drama of female vulnerability victimized by male

aggression.  Even the more sophisticated feminist thinkers frequently shy

away from the analysis of submission, for fear that in admitting woman's

participation in the relationship of domination, the onus of responsibility

will appear to shift from men to women, and the moral victory from women to

men.  More generally, this has been a weakness of radical politics: to

idealize the oppressed, as if their politics and culture were untouched by

the system of domination, as if people did not participate in their own

submission.  To reduce domination to a simple relation of doer and done-to

is to substitute moral outrage for analysis.

        -- Jessica Benjamin, "The Bonds of Love"


A sociologist, a psychologist, and a engineer were discussing the

consequences and implications of a married man's having a mistress.  The

sociologist's opinion was that it is absolutely and categorically unforgivable

for a married man to forfeit the bond of matrimony, and engage in such lowly

and lustful pursuits.

    The psychologist's opinion was that although morally reprehensible,

if a man MUST have a mistress to achieve his full potential as a human being,

then -- well -- he may go ahead and choose to have a mistress, as long as he

is considerate enough to keep this secret from his wife.

    The engineer then interjected: "I also believe that, if necessary,

a married man is entitled to a mistress.  However, I do not see why the

affair should be concealed from the wife.  On the contrary, if the affair

is out in the open, then on Friday evenings he may tell his wife that he

is going to see his mistress, tell his mistress that he is going to be with

his wife, then go to his office and get some work done!"


A wife lasts only for the length of the marriage, but an ex-wife is there

*for the rest of your life*.

        -- Jim Samuels


A woman can look both moral and exciting -- if she also looks as if it

were quite a struggle.

        -- Edna Ferber


A woman can never be too rich or too thin.


A woman did what a woman had to, the best way she knew how.

To do more was impossible, to do less, unthinkable.

        -- Dirisha, "The Man Who Never Missed"


A woman forgives the audacity of which her beauty has prompted us to be guilty.

        -- LeSage


A woman has got to love a bad man once or twice in her life to be

thankful for a good one.

        -- Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings


A woman is like your shadow; follow her, she flies; fly from her, she follows.

        -- Chamfort


A woman may very well form a friendship with a man, but for this to endure,

it must be assisted by a little physical antipathy.

        -- Nietzsche


A woman of generous character will sacrifice her life a thousand times

over for her lover, but will break with him for ever over a question of

pride -- for the opening or the shutting of a door.

        -- Stendhal


A woman shouldn't have to buy her own perfume.

        -- Maurine Lewis


A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.

        -- Gloria Steinem


A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.

Therefore, a man without a woman is like a bicycle without a fish.


A woman's best protection is a little money of her own.

        -- Clare Booth Luce, quoted in "The Wit of Women"


A woman's place is in the house... and in the Senate.


A woman, especially if she have the misfortune of knowing anything,

should conceal it as well as she can.

        -- Jane Austen


    A young husband with an inferiority complex insisted he was just a

little pebble on the beach.  The marriage counselor told him, "If you wish to

save your marriage, you'd better be a little boulder."


A young man and his girlfriend were walking along Main Street when she spotted

a beautiful diamond ring in a jewelry-store window.  "Wow, I'd sure love to

have that!" she gushed.

    "No problem," her companion replied, throwing a brick through the

window and grabbing the ring.

    A few blocks later, the woman admired a full-length sable coat.  "What

I'd give to own that," she said, sighing.

    "No problem," he said, throwing a brick through the window and grabbing

the coat.

    Finally, turning for home, they passed a car dealership.  "Boy, I'd do

anything for one of those Rolls-Royces," she said.

    "Jeez, baby," the guy moaned, "you think I'm made of bricks?"


A young man enters the New York branch of Tiffany's on a Friday evening and

walks up to a display case full of pearl necklaces.  He turns to a gorgeous

woman, who is obviously windowshopping, looks her straight in the eye and

says, "I can tell by your eyes that you really want that necklace.  If you'll

allow me, I'd like to buy it for you."

    The woman looks him up and down; he's wearing a nice suit and some

pretty nice jewelry, but she has trouble believing this story.

    "Look, this is some kind of put on, right?"

    "No, really.  You see, I've got quite a lot of money -- so much that

I could never spend it all.  I'd really like for you to have it."

    The guys whips out his checkbook, writes a check for five figures,

calls over a clerk and hands it to him.  The clerk peers at the check, looks

at the young man, looks at the check again.  "Very good, sir.  I'm afraid I

can't release the necklace immediately, would Monday be all right?"

    "That'll be fine, she'll pick it up." the man replies, and walks out

of the store with the woman following him in a daze.

    The next Monday the man comes back in and walks up to the counter.

The same clerk hurries over to him and says, "Sir, I'm sorry to have to tell

you this, but your check was returned for insufficient funds."

    "I know," the man replies.  "I just wanted to thank you for a

terrific weekend."


AA            AAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaccccccccckkkkkk!!!!!!!!!

You brute!  Knock before entering a ladies room!


Ain't nothin' an old man can do for me but bring me a message from a young man.

        -- Moms Mabley


Alimony is a system by which, when two people make a mistake, one of them

continues to pay for it.

        -- Peggy Joyce


Alimony is like buying oats for a dead horse.

        -- Arthur Baer


Alimony is the curse of the writing classes.

        -- Norman Mailer


All heiresses are beautiful.

        -- John Dryden


All husbands are alike, but they have different faces so you can tell

them apart.


All most men really want in life is a wife, a house, two kids and a car,

a cat, no maybe a dog.  Ummm, scratch one of the kids and add a dog.

Definitely a dog.


All the men on my staff can type.

        -- Bella Abzug


All work and no pay makes a housewife.


American culture is based on the automobile, and any young man of promise

is going to own one and want to travel great distances in it.  Consequently,

any young woman of aspiration should expect to spend most of her vacations

in a car, probing into unfamiliar corners.  She is not required to know how

to drive but she will certainly be expected to read the road map while her

husband drives, and if she can't, or if she's abnormally slow in giving him

help, she's bound to cause trouble.  Therefore, you'd think that colleges

which train the bright young women who're going to marry the bright young

men who are going to own the Cadillacs that roar back and forth across this

continent would teach the girls to read maps.  None do. They teach a hundred

other useless things, but never a word about the one that will cause the

greatest friction.

        -- James Michener, "Space"


    An airplane pilot got engaged to two very pretty women at the same

time.  One was named Edith; the other named Kate.  They met, discovered they

had the same fiancee, and told him.  "Get out of our lives you rascal.  We'll

teach you that you can't have your Kate and Edith, too."


An optimist is a man who looks forward to marriage.

A pessimist is a married optimist.


"And what do you two think you are doing?!" roared the husband, as he came

upon his wife in bed with another man.  The wife turned and smiled at her


"See?" she said.  "I told you he was stupid!"


And yet I should have dearly liked, I own, to have touched her lips; to

have questioned her, that she might have opened them; to have looked upon

the lashes of her downcast eyes, and never raised a blush; to have let

loose waves of hair, an inch of which would be a keepsake beyond price:

in short, I should have liked, I do confess, to have had the lightest

license of a child, and yet been man enough to know its value.

        -- Charles Dickens


Another greeting card category consists of those persons who send out

photographs of their families every year.  In the same mail that brought the

greetings from Marcia and Philip, my friend found such a conversation piece.

"My God, Lida is enormous!" she exclaimed.  I don't know why women want to

record each year, for two or three hundred people to see, the ravages wrought

upon them, their mates, and their progeny by the artillery of time, but

between five and seven per cent of Christmas cards, at a rough estimate, are

family groups, and even the most charitable recipient studies them for little

signs of dissolution or derangement.  Nothing cheers a woman more, I am afraid,

than the proof that another woman is letting herself go, or has lost control

of her figure, or is clearly driving her husband crazy, or is obviously

drinking more than is good for her, or still doesn't know what to wear.

Middle-aged husbands in such photographs are often described as looking

"young enough to be her son," but they don't always escape so easily, and a

couple opening envelopes in the season of mercy and good will sometimes handle

a male friend or acquaintance rather sharply.  "Good Lord!" the wife will say.

"Frank looks like a sex-crazed shotgun slayer, doesn't he?"  "Not to me," the

husband may reply.  "to me he looks more like a Wilkes-Barre dentist who is

being sought by the police in connection with the disappearance of a choir


        -- James Thurber, "Merry Christmas"


Any girl can be glamorous; all you have to do is stand still and look stupid.

        -- Hedy Lamarr


Any woman is a volume if one knows how to read her.


Anyone who says he can see through women is missing a lot.

        -- Groucho Marx


    "Anything else, sir?" asked the attentive bellhop, trying his best

to make the lady and gentleman comfortable in their penthouse suite in the

posh hotel.

    "No.  No, thank you," replied the gentleman.

    "Anything for your wife, sir?" the bellhop asked.

    "Why, yes, young man," said the gentleman.  "Would you bring me a



As fathers commonly go, it is seldom a misfortune to be fatherless; and

considering the general run of sons, as seldom a misfortune to be childless.

The only solid and lasting peace between a man and his wife is, doubtless,

a separation.

        -- Lord Chesterfield, letter to his son, 1763


Asked how she felt being the first woman to make a major-league team, she

said, "Like a pig in mud," or words to that effect, and then turned and

released a squirt of tobacco juice from the wad of rum soaked plug in her

right cheek.  She chewed a rare brand of plug called Stuff It, which she

learned to chew when she was playing Nicaraguan summer ball.  She told the

writers, "They were so mean to me down there you couldn't write it in your

newspaper.  I took a gun everywhere I went, even to bed.  *Especially* to

bed.  Guys were after me like you can't believe.  That's when I started

chewing tobacco -- because no matter how bad anybody treats you, it's not

as bad as this.  This is the worst chew in the world.  After this,

everything else is peaches and cream."  The writers elected Gentleman Jim,

the Sparrow's P.R. guy, to bite off a chunk and tell them how it tasted,

and as he sat and chewed it tears ran down his old sunburnt cheeks and he

couldn't talk for a while. Then he whispered, "You've been chewing this for

two years?  God, I had no idea it was so hard to be a woman."

        -- Garrison Keillor


At last I've found the girl of my dreams.  Last night she said to me,

"Once more, Strange, and this time *I'll* be Donnie and *you* be Marie.

        -- Strange de Jim


Bachelors' wives and old maids' children are always perfect.

        -- Nicolas Chamfort


Basically my wife was immature.  I'd be at home in the bath and she'd

come in and sink my boats.

        -- Woody Allen


Be circumspect in your liaisons with women.  It is better to be seen at

the opera with a man than at mass with a woman.

        -- De Maintenon


Be prepared to accept sacrifices.  Vestal virgins aren't all that bad.


Beauty seldom recommends one woman to another.


Beauty, brains, availability, personality; pick any two.


Before marriage the three little words are "I love you," after marriage

they are "Let's eat out."


Behind every successful man you'll find a woman with nothing to wear.


Being asked solicitously about the state of her health was becoming bothersome

to the pregnant woman at the cocktail party.  And yet another guest went over

and inquired, "Well, how are you feeling these days?"

    "Not too well," said the expectant mother.  "You know, I've missed

seven or eight periods now and it's beginning to worry me."


Being owned by someone used to be called slavery -- now it's called commitment.


Benny Hill:    Would you like a peanut?

Girl:        No, thank you, I don't want to be under obligation.

Benny Hill:    You won't be under obligation for a peanut.

        It's not as if it were a chocolate bar or something.


Bigamy is having one spouse too many.  Monogamy is the same.


Birds and bees have as much to do with the facts of life as black

nightgowns do with keeping warm.

        -- Hester Mundis, "Powermom"


Boys are beyond the range of anybody's sure understanding, at least

when they are between the ages of 18 months and 90 years.

        -- James Thurber


Boys will be boys, and so will a lot of middle-aged men.

        -- Kin Hubbard


Brigands will demand your money or your life, but a woman will demand both.

        -- Samuel Butler


By all means marry: If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you

get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.

        -- Socrates


Changing husbands/wives is only changing troubles.

        -- Kathleen Norris


Choose in marriage only a woman whom you would choose as a friend if she

were a man.

        -- Joubert


Courtship to marriage, as a very witty prologue to a very dull play.

        -- William Congreve


Darling: the popular form of address used in speaking to a member of the

opposite sex whose name you cannot at the moment remember.

        -- Oliver Herford


Dear Miss Manners:

I carry a big black umbrella, even if there's just a thirty percent chance of

rain.  May I ask a young lady who is a stranger to me to share its protection?

This morning, I was waiting for a bus in comparative comfort, my umbrella

protecting me from the downpour, and noticed an attractive young woman getting

soaked.  I have often seen her at my bus stop, although we have never spoken,

and I don't even know her name.  Could I have asked her to get under my

umbrella without seeming insulting?

Gentle Reader:

Certainly.  Consideration for those less fortunate than you is always proper,

although it would be more convincing if you stopped babbling about how

attractive she is.  In order not to give Good Samaritanism a bad name, Miss

Manners asks you to allow her two or three rainy days of unmolested protection

before making your attack.


Dear Miss Manners:

Please list some tactful ways of removing a man's saliva from your face.

Gentle Reader:

Please list some decent ways of acquiring a man's saliva on your face. If

the gentleman sprayed you inadvertently to accompany enthusiastic

discourse, you may step back two paces, bring out your handkerchief, and

go through the motions of wiping your nose, while trailing the cloth along

your face to pick up whatever needs mopping along the route.  If, however,

the substance was acquired as a result of enthusiasm of a more intimate

nature, you may delicately retrieve it with a flick of your pink tongue.


Do not permit a woman to ask forgiveness, for that is only the first

step.  The second is justification of herself by accusation of you.

        -- DeGourmont


Do you think your mother and I should have lived comfortably so long

together if ever we had been married?


Don't assume that every sad-eyed woman has loved and lost -- she may

have got him.


Don't know what time I'll be back, Mom.  Probably soon after she throws me out.


Don't marry for money; you can borrow it cheaper.

        -- Scottish Proverb


Dull women have immaculate homes.


    During a visit to America, Winston Churchill was invited to a buffet

luncheon at which cold fried chicken was served.  Returning for a second

helping, he asked politely, "May I have some breast?"

    "Mr. Churchill," replied the hostess, "in this country we ask for

white meat or dark meat."  Churchill apologized profusely.

    The following morning, the lady received a magnificent orchid from

her guest of honor.  The accompanying card read: "I would be most obliged if

you would pin this on your white meat."


Economists are still trying to figure out why the girls with the least

principle draw the most interest.


Eighty percent of married men cheat in America.  The rest cheat in Europe.

        -- Jackie Mason


... eighty years later he could still recall with the young pang of his

original joy his falling in love with Ada.

        -- Nabokov


    Equality is not when a female Einstein gets promoted to assistant

professor; equality is when a female schlemiel moves ahead as fast as a

male schlemiel.

        -- Ewald Nyquist


    Eugene d'Albert, a noted German composer, was married six times.

At an evening reception which he attended with his fifth wife shortly

after their wedding, he presented the lady to a friend who said politely,

"Congratulations, Herr d'Albert; you have rarely introduced me to so

charming a wife."


"Even nowadays a man can't step up and kill a woman without feeling

just a bit unchivalrous ..."

        -- Robert Benchley


Every man who is high up likes to think that he has done it all himself,

and the wife smiles and lets it go at that.

        -- Barrie


Everybody is given the same amount of hormones, at birth, and

if you want to use yours for growing hair, that's fine with me.


Farmers in the Iowa State survey rated machinery breakdowns more

stressful than divorce.

        -- Wall Street Journal


Feminists just want the human race to be a tie.


First love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity, no really

self-respecting woman would take advantage of it.

        -- George Bernard Shaw, "John Bull's Other Island"


Flirting is the gentle art of making a man feel pleased with himself.

        -- Helen Rowland


For a young man, not yet: for an old man, never at all.

        -- Diogenes, asked when a man should marry

When should a man marry?  A young man, not yet; an elder man, not at all.

        -- Sir Francis Bacon, "Of Marriage and Single Life"


For a young man, not yet: for an old man, never at all.

        -- Diogenes, asked when a man should marry

When should a man marry?  A young man, not yet; an elder man, not at all.

        -- Sir Francis Bacon, "Of Marriage and Single Life"


For I swore I would stay a year away from her; out and alas!

but with break of day I went to make supplication.

        -- Paulus Silentarius, c. 540 A.D.


For thirty years a certain man went to spend every evening with Mme. ___.

When his wife died his friends believed he would marry her, and urged

him to do so.  "No, no," he said: "if I did, where should I have to

spend my evenings?"

        -- Chamfort


Fortunate is he for whom the belle toils.



Low Blows:

    Let's say a man and woman are watching a boxing match on TV.  One

of the boxers is felled by a low blow.  The woman says "Oh, gee.  That must

hurt." The man doubles over and actually FEELS the pain.

Dressing Up:

    A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the

garbage, answer the phone, read a book, get the mail.   A man will dress up

for: weddings, funerals.  Speaking of weddings, when reminiscing about

weddings, women talk about "the ceremony".  Men laugh about "the bachelor


David Letterman:

    Men think David Letterman is the funniest man on the face of the

Earth.  Women think he is a mean, semi-dorky guy who always has a bad haircut.




    First of all, a man does not call a relationship a relationship -- he

refers to it as "that time when me and Suzie were doing it on a semi-regular


    When a relationship ends, a woman will cry and pour her heart out to

her girlfriends, and she will write a poem titled "All Men Are Idiots".  Then

she will get on with her life.

    A man has a little more trouble letting go.  Six months after the

breakup, at 3:00 a.m. on a Saturday night, he will call and say, "I just

wanted to let you know you ruined my life, and I'll never forgive you, and I

hate you, and you're a total floozy.  But I want you to know that there's

always a chance for us".  This is known as the "I Hate You / I Love You"

drunken phone call, that 99% if all men have made at least once.  There are

community colleges that offer courses to help men get over this need; alas,

these classes rarely prove effective.




     The average man has 4 pairs of footwear: running shoes, dress shoes,

boots, and slippers.  The average woman has shoes 4 layers thick on the floor

of her closet.  Most of them hurt her feet.

Making friends:

     A woman will meet another woman with common interests, do a few things

together, and say something like, "I hope we can be good friends."

    A man will meet another man with common interests, do a few things

together, and say nothing.  After years of interacting with this other man,

sharing hopes and fears that he wouldn't confide in his priest or

psychiatrist, he'll finally let down his guard in a fit of drunken

sentimentality and say something like, "You know, for someone who's such a

jerk, I guess you're OK."




    A woman will generally admire an ornate dessert for the artistic

work it is, praising its creator and waiting a suitable interval before

she reluctantly takes a small sliver off one edge.  A man will start by

grabbing the cherry in the center.

Car repair:

    The average man thinks his Y chromosome contains complete repair

manuals for every car made since World War II.  He will work on a problem

himself until it either goes away or turns into something that "can't be

fixed without special tools".

    The average woman thinks "that funny thump-thump noise" is an

accurate description of an automotive problem.  She will, however, have the

car serviced at the proper intervals and thereby incur fewer problems than

the average man.




    Men don't discard clothes.  The average man still has the gym shirt

he wore in high school.  He thinks a jacket is "just getting broken in" about

the time it develops holes in the elbows.  A man will let new shirts sit on

the shelf in their original packaging for a couple of years before putting

them to use, hoping they'll become more comfortable with age.

    Women think clothes are radioactive, with a half-life of one year.

They exercise precautions to avoid contamination by last year's fashions.




    The average woman would really like to be told if her mate is fooling

around behind her back.  This same woman wouldn't tell her best friend if

she knew the best friends' mate was having an affair.  She'll tell all her

OTHER friends, however.  The average man won't say anything if he knows that

one of his friend's mates is fooling around, and he'd rather not know if

his mate is having an affair either, out of fear that it might be with one

of his friends.  He will tell all his friends about his own affairs, though,

so they can be ready if he needs an alibi.


    A typical man thinks he's Mario Andretti as soon as he slips behind

the wheel of his car.  The fact that it's an 8-year-old Honda doesn't keep

him from trying to out-accelerate the guy in the Porsche who's attempting

to cut him off; freeway on-ramps are exciting challenges to see who has The

Right Stuff on the morning commute.  Does he or doesn't he?  Only his body

shop knows for sure.  Insurance companies understand this behavior, and

price their policies accordingly.

    A woman will slow down to let a car merge in front of her, and get

rear-ended by another woman who was busy adding the finishing touches to

her makeup.




    A man has six items in his bathroom -- a toothbrush, toothpaste,

shaving cream, razor, a bar of Dial soap, and a towel from the Holiday Inn.

The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 437.  A man

would not be able to identify most of these items.


    A woman makes a list of things she needs and then goes to the store

and buys these things.  A man waits 'til the only items left in his fridge

are half a lime and a Blue Ribbon.  Then he goes grocery shopping.  He buys

everything that looks good.  By the time a man reaches the checkout counter,

his cart is packed tighter that the Clampett's car on Beverly Hillbillies.

Of course, this will not stop him from entering the 10-items-or-less lane.



Going Out:

    When a man says he is ready to go out, it means he is ready to go

out.  When a woman says she is ready to go out, it means she WILL be ready

to go out, as soon as she finds her earring, finishes putting on her makeup,

checks on the kids, makes a phone call to her best friend...


    Women love cats.  Men say they love cats, but when women aren't

looking, men kick cats.


    Ah, children.  A woman knows all about her children.  She knows

about dentist appointments and soccer games and romances and best friends

and favorite foods and secret fears and hopes and dreams.  Men are vaguely

aware of some short people living in the house.




    Women do laundry every couple of days.  A man will wear every article

of clothing he owns, including his surgical pants that were hip about eight

years ago, before he will do his laundry.  When he is finally out of clothes,

he will wear a dirty sweatshirt inside out, rent a U-Haul and take his mountain

of clothes to the laundromat.  Men always expect to meet beautiful women at

the laundromat.  This is a myth.


    If Gloria, Suzanne, Deborah and Michelle get together for lunch,

they will call each other Gloria, Suzanne, Deborah and Michelle.  But if

Mike, Dave, Rob and Jack go out for a brewsky, they will affectionately

refer to each other as Bullet-Head, Godzilla, Peanut Brain and Useless.


    Men wear sensible socks.  They wear standard white sweatsocks.

Women wear strange socks.  They are cut way below the ankles, have pictures

of clouds on them, and have a big fuzzy ball on the back.


    Fred noticed his roommate had a black eye upon returning from a dance.

"What happened?"

    "I was struck by the beauty of the place."


    Friends were surprised, indeed, when Frank and Jennifer broke their

engagement, but Frank had a ready explanation: "Would you marry someone who

was habitually unfaithful, who lied at every turn, who was selfish and lazy

and sarcastic?"

    "Of course not," said a sympathetic friend.

    "Well," retorted Frank, "neither would Jennifer."


                FROM THE DESK OF


Dear Prince:

    Use ladder tonight -- you're splitting my ends.


Genuine happiness is when a wife sees a double chin on her husband's

old girl friend.


            -- Gifts for Men --

Men are amused by almost any idiot thing -- that is why professional ice

hockey is so popular -- so buying gifts for them is easy.  But you should

never buy them clothes.  Men believe they already have all the clothes they

will ever need, and new ones make them nervous.  For example, your average

man has 84 ties, but he wears, at most, only three of them.  He has learned,

through humiliating trial and error, that if he wears any of the other 81

ties, his wife will probably laugh at him ("You're not going to wear THAT

tie with that suit, are you?"). So he has narrowed it down to three safe

ties, and has gone several years without being laughed at.  If you give him

a new tie, he will pretend to like it, but deep inside he will hate you.

If you want to give a man something practical, consider tires.  More than

once, I would have gladly traded all the gifts I got for a new set of tires.

        -- Dave Barry, "Christmas Shopping: A Survivor's Guide"


Girls are better looking in snowstorms.

        -- Archie Goodwin


Girls marry for love.  Boys marry because of a chronic irritation that

causes them to gravitate in the direction of objects with certain curvilinear


        -- Ashley Montagu


Girls really do know just what they want -- you to figure it out for yourself!


Girls who throw themselves at men, are actually taking very careful aim.


Give a woman an inch and she'll park a car in it.


God created a few perfect heads.  The rest he covered with hair.


God created woman.  And boredom did indeed cease from that moment --

but many other things ceased as well.  Woman was God's second mistake.

        -- Nietzsche


Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere.


Harold had never wanted a woman so much in his life, upon overhearing the

22-year-old beauty remark that he was too old and out of shape for her.  The

determined septuagenarian immediately embarked upon a rigorous self-improvement

program.  He had his face lifted, bought a toupee, ran five miles every day,

lifted weights and adopted a strict vegetarian diet.  Within months, the

rejuvenated man won the young woman's heart, and she agreed to marry him.

    On the way out of the chapel, however, Harold was fatally struck

by lightning.  Furious, he confronted Saint Peter at the pearly gates.  "How

could you do this to me after all the pain I went through?"

    "To be honest, Harold," Saint Peter sheepishly replied, "I didn't

recognize you."


Hat check girl:

    "Goodness!  What lovely diamonds!"

Mae West:

    "Goodness had nothin' to do with it, dearie."

        -- "Night After Night", 1932


Having a baby isn't so bad.  If you're a female Emperor penguin in the

Antarctic.  She lays the egg, rolls it over to the father, then takes off

for warmer weather where she eats and eats and eats.  For two months, the

father stands stiff, without food, blind in the 24-hour dark, balancing

the egg on his feet.  After the little penguin is hatched, the mother

sees fit to come home.

        -- L. M. Boyd, "Austin American-Statesman"


He gave her a look that you could have poured on a waffle.


He who enters his wife's dressing room is a philosopher or a fool.

        -- Balzac


He who is intoxicated with wine will be sober again in the course of the

night, but he who is intoxicated by the cupbearer will not recover his

senses until the day of judgement.

        -- Saadi


Hey, Jim, it's me, Susie Lillis from the laundromat.  You said you were

gonna call and it's been two weeks.  What's wrong, you lose my number?


High heels are a device invented by a woman who was tired of being kissed

on the forehead.


Him:    "Your skin is so soft.  Are you a model?"

Her:    "No,"  [blush]  "I'm a cosmetologist."

Him:    "Really? That's incredible... It must be very tough to handle


        -- "The Jerk"


His designs were strictly honourable, as the phrase is: that is, to rob

a lady of her fortune by way of marriage.

        -- Henry Fielding, "Tom Jones"


"Home, Sweet Home" must surely have been written by a bachelor.

        -- Samuel Butler


Horace's best ode would not please a young woman as much as the mediocre

verses of the young man she is in love with.

        -- Moore


How much for your women?  I want to buy your daughter... how much for

the little girl?

        -- Jake Blues, "The Blues Brothers"


    "How would I know if I believe in love at first sight?" the sexy

social climber said to her roommate.  "I mean, I've never seen a Porsche

full of money before."


I am very fond of the company of ladies.  I like their beauty,

I like their delicacy, I like their vivacity, and I like their silence.

        -- Samuel Johnson


I began many years ago, as so many young men do, in searching for the

perfect woman.  I believed that if I looked long enough, and hard enough,

I would find her and then I would be secure for life.  Well, the years

and romances came and went, and I eventually ended up settling for someone

a lot less than my idea of perfection.  But one day, after many years

together, I lay there on our bed recovering from a slight illness.  My

wife was sitting on a chair next to the bed, humming softly and watching

the late afternoon sun filtering through the trees.  The only sounds to

be heard elsewhere were the clock ticking, the kettle downstairs starting

to boil, and an occasional schoolchild passing beneath our window.  And

as I looked up into my wife's now wrinkled face, but still warm and

twinkling eyes, I realized something about perfection...  It comes only

with time.

        -- James L. Collymore, "Perfect Woman"


I believe a little incompatibility is the spice of life, particularly if he

has income and she is pattable.

        -- Ogden Nash


I can feel for her because, although I have never been an Alaskan prostitute

dancing on the bar in a spangled dress, I still get very bored with washing

and ironing and dishwashing and cooking day after relentless day.

        -- Betty MacDonald


I can't mate in captivity.

        -- Gloria Steinem, on why she has never married.


I come from a small town whose population never changed.  Each time a woman

got pregnant, someone left town.

        -- Michael Prichard


I do enjoy a good long walk -- especially when my wife takes one.


"I don't have to take this abuse from you -- I've got hundreds of

people waiting to abuse me."

        -- Bill Murray, "Ghostbusters"


I GUESS I'LL NEVER FORGET HER.  And maybe I don't want to.  Her spirit

was wild, like a wild monkey.  Her beauty was like a beautiful horse

being ridden by a wild monkey.  I forget her other qualities.

        -- Jack Handley, The New Mexican, 1988.


I have a hard time being attracted to anyone who can beat me up.

        -- John McGrath, Atlanta sportswriter, on women weightlifters.


I have found it impossible to carry the heavy burden of responsibility and

to discharge my duties as king as I would wish to do without the help and

support of the woman I love.

        -- Edward, Duke of Windsor, 1936, announcing his abdication

           of the British throne in order to marry the American

           divorcee Wallis Warfield Simpson.


I have now come to the conclusion never again to think of marrying,

and for this reason: I can never be satisfied with anyone who would

be blockhead enough to have me.

        -- Abraham Lincoln


I know the disposition of women: when you will, they won't; when

you won't, they set their hearts upon you of their own inclination.

        -- Publius Terentius Afer (Terence)


I learned to play guitar just to get the girls, and anyone who says they

didn't is just lyin'!

        -- Willie Nelson


I like being single.  I'm always there when I need me.

        -- Art Leo


I like myself, but I won't say I'm as handsome as the bull that kidnapped


        -- Marcus Tullius Cicero


I like young girls.  Their stories are shorter.

        -- Tom McGuane


I love being married.  It's so great to find that one special person

you want to annoy for the rest of your life.

        -- Rita Rudner


I love Mickey Mouse more than any woman I've ever known.

        -- Walt Disney


    I managed to say, "Sorry," and no more.  I knew that he disliked

me to cry.

    This time he said, watching me, "On some occasions it is better

to weep."

    I put my head down on the table and sobbed, "If only she could come

back; I would be nice."

    Francis said, "You gave her great pleasure always."

    "Oh, not enough."

    "Nobody can give anybody enough."

    "Not ever?"

    "No, not ever.  But one must go on trying."

    "And doesn't one ever value people until they are gone?"

    "Rarely," said Francis.  I went on weeping; I saw how little I had

valued him; how little I had valued anything that was mine.

        -- Pamela Frankau, "The Duchess and the Smugs"


I married beneath me.  All women do.

        -- Lady Nancy Astor


I met a wonderful new man.  He's fictional, but you can't have everything.

        -- Cecelia, "The Purple Rose of Cairo"


I never expected to see the day when girls would get sunburned in the

places they do today.

        -- Will Rogers


I never met a woman I couldn't drink pretty.


I read Playboy for the same reason I read National Geographic.  To see

the sights I'm never going to visit.


I refuse to consign the whole male sex to the nursery.  I insist on

believing that some men are my equals.

        -- Brigid Brophy


I respect the institution of marriage.  I have always thought that every

woman should marry -- and no man.

        -- Benjamin Disraeli, "Lothair"


I sat down beside her, said hello, offered to buy her a drink... and then

natural selection reared its ugly head.


I think she must have been very strictly brought up, she's so desperately

anxious to do the wrong thing correctly.

        -- Saki, "Reginald on Worries"


I think the world is ready for the story of an ugly duckling, who grew up to

remain an ugly duckling, and lived happily ever after.

        -- Chick


I want to buy a husband who, every week when I sit down to watch "St.

Elsewhere", won't scream, "Forget it, Blanche... It's time for Hee-Haw!"

        -- Berke Breathed, "Bloom County"


I want to marry a girl just like the girl that married dear old dad.

        -- Freud


I was in a beauty contest one.  I not only came in last, I was hit in

the mouth by Miss Congeniality.

        -- Phyllis Diller


I wasn't kissing her, I was whispering in her mouth.

        -- Chico Marx


I will not say that women have no character; rather, they have a new

one every day.

        -- Heine


I would gladly raise my voice in praise of women, only they won't let me

raise my voice.

        -- Winkle


I wouldn't marry her with a ten foot pole.


I'd probably settle for a vampire if he were romantic enough.

Couldn't be any worse than some of the relationships I've had.

        -- Brenda Starr


I'd rather have two girls at 21 each than one girl at 42.

        -- W. C. Fields


I'm defending her honor, which is more than she ever did.


I'm not denyin' the women are foolish: God Almighty made 'em to match the men.

        -- George Eliot


I'm very old-fashioned.  I believe that people should marry for life,

like pigeons and Catholics.

        -- Woody Allen


I've been in more laps than a napkin.

        -- Mae West


I've spent almost all of my life with highly intelligent men.  They're not

like other men.  Their spirit is great and stimulating.  They hate strife;

indeed they reject it.  Their inventive gifts are boundless.  They demand

devotion and obedience.  And a sense of humor.  I happily gave all of this.

I was lucky to be chosen and clever enough to understand them.

        -- Marlene Dietrich, on her friendship with Ernest Hemingway


If I had to live my life again, I'd make the same mistakes, only sooner.

        -- Tallulah Bankhead


If I told you you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?


If it were not for the presents, an elopement would be preferable.

        -- George Ade, "Forty Modern Fables"


If men acted after marriage as they do during courtship, there would

be fewer divorces -- and more bankruptcies.

        -- Frances Rodman


If someone were to ask me for a short cut to sensuality, I would

suggest he go shopping for a used 427 Shelby-Cobra.  But it is only

fair to warn you that of the 300 guys who switched to them in 1966,

only two went back to women.

        -- Mort Sahl


If the girl you love moves in with another guy once, it's more than enough.

Twice, it's much too much.  Three times, it's the story of your life.


If there is any realistic deterrent to marriage, it's the fact that you

can't afford divorce.

        -- Jack Nicholson


If we men married the women we deserved, we should have a very bad time of it.

        -- Oscar Wilde


If women are supposed to be less rational and more emotional at the

beginning of our menstrual cycle, when the female hormone is at its

lowest level, then why isn't it logical to say that in those few days

women behave the most like the way men behave all month long?

        -- Gloria Steinham


If women didn't exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning.

        -- Aristotle Onassis


If you are afraid of loneliness, don't marry.

        -- Anton Chekhov


If you are looking for a kindly, well-to-do older gentleman who is no

longer interested in sex, take out an ad in The Wall Street Journal.

        -- Abigail Van Buren


If you give a man enough rope, he'll claim he's tied up at the office.


If you marry a man who cheats on his wife, you'll be married to a man who

cheats on his wife.

        -- Ann Landers


If you MUST get married, it is always advisable to marry beauty.

Otherwise, you'll never find anybody to take her off your hands.


If you want me to be a good little bunny just dangle some carats in front

of my nose.

        -- Lauren Bacall


If you want to be ruined, marry a rich woman.

        -- Michelet


If you want to read about love and marriage you've got to buy two separate


        -- Alan King


If you want your spouse to listen and pay strict attention to every

word you say, talk in your sleep.


If you wish women to love you, be original; I know a man who wore fur

boots summer and winter, and women fell in love with him.

        -- Anton Chekhov


In buying horses and taking a wife shut your eyes tight and commend

yourself to God.


In Christianity, a man may have only one wife.  This is called Monotony.


In marriage, as in war, it is permitted to take every advantage of the enemy.


In olden times sacrifices were made at the altar -- a practice which is

still continued.

        -- Helen Rowland


In the midst of one of the wildest parties he'd ever been to, the young man

noticed a very prim and pretty girl sitting quietly apart from the rest of

the revelers.  Approaching her, he introduced himself and, after some quiet

conversation, said, "I'm afraid you and I don't really fit in with this

jaded group.  Why don't I take you home?""

    "Fine," said the girl, smiling up at him demurely.  "Where do you live?"


Insanity is considered a ground for divorce, though by the very same

token it is the shortest detour to marriage.

        -- Wilson Mizner


Is a wedding successful if it comes off without a hitch?


Is not marriage an open question, when it is alleged, from the

beginning of the world, that such as are in the institution wish to get

out, and such as are out wish to get in?

        -- Ralph Emerson


Isn't it ironic that many men spend a great part of their lives

avoiding marriage while single-mindedly pursuing those things that

would make them better prospects?


It [marriage] happens as with cages: the birds without despair

to get in, and those within despair of getting out.

        -- Michel Eyquem de Montaigne


It did not occur to me that my being with two men continuously would

interest anyone or arouse anyone's misgivings. I asked for an invitation

for Heinrich too, as often as it seemed possible, when Paulus and I were

invited to a social gathering. I felt the set of rules others lived by

was irrelevant. My childhood attitude -- every attempt to adjust is

hopeless and you might just as well follow your own attitudes -- must have

carried me.

        -- Hannah Tillich, "From Time to Time"


It doesn't much signify whom one marries, for one is sure to find out

next morning it was someone else.

        -- Will Rogers


It has been justly observed by sages of all lands that although a man may be

most happily married and continue in that state with the utmost contentment,

it does not necessarily follow that he has therefore been struck stone-blind.

        -- H. Warner Munn


    It is always preferable to visit home with a friend.  Your parents will

not be pleased with this plan, because they want you all to themselves and

because in the presence of your friend, they will have to act like mature

human beings.

    The worst kind of friend to take home is a girl, because in that case,

there is the potential that your parents will lose you not just for the

duration of the visit but forever.  The worst kind of girl to take home is one

of a different religion:  Not only will you be lost to your parents forever but

you will be lost to a woman who is immune to their religious/moral arguments

and whose example will irretrievably corrupt you.

    Let's say you've fallen in love with just such a girl and would like

to take her home for the holidays.  You are aware of your parents' xenophobic

response to anyone of a different religion.  How to prepare them for the shock?

    Simple.  Call them up shortly before your visit and tell them that you

have gotten quite serious about somebody who is of a different religion, a

different race and the same sex.  Tell them you have already invited this

person to meet them.  Give the information a moment to sink in and then

remark that you were only kidding, that your lover is merely of a different

religion.  They will be so relieved they will welcome her with open arms.

        -- Playboy, January, 1983


It is explained that all relationships require a little give and take.  This

is untrue.  Any partnership demands that we give and give and give and at the

last, as we flop into our graves exhausted, we are told that we didn't give


        -- Quentin Crisp, "How to Become a Virgin"


It is idle to attempt to talk a young woman out of her passion:

love does not lie in the ear.

        -- Walpole


It is most dangerous nowadays for a husband to pay any attention to his

wife in public.  It always makes people think that he beats her when

they're alone.  The world has grown so suspicious of anything that looks

like a happy married life.

        -- Oscar Wilde


It is not necessary to inquire whether a woman would like something for

dessert.  The answer is yes, she would like something for dessert, but

she would like you to order it so she can pick at it with your fork.  She

does not want you to call attention to this by saying, 'If you wanted a

dessert, why didn't you order one?'  You must understand, she has the

dessert she wants.  The dessert she wants is contained within yours.

        -- Merrill Markoe, "An Insider's Guide to the American Woman"


It is now quite lawful for a Catholic woman to avoid pregnancy by a resort to

mathematics, though she is still forbidden to resort to physics and chemistry.

        -- H. L. Mencken


It is possible that blondes also prefer gentlemen.

        -- Maimie Van Doren


It takes a smart husband to have the last word and not use it.


It was a fine, sweet night, the nicest since my divorce, maybe the nicest

since the middle of my marriage.  There was energy, softness, grace and

laughter.  I even took my socks off.  In my circle, that means class.

        -- Andrew Bergman "The Big Kiss-off of 1944"


It was raining heavily, and the motorist had car trouble on a lonely country

road.  Anxious to find shelter for the night, he walked over to a farmhouse

and knocked on the front door.  No one responded.  He could feel the water

from the roof running down the back of his neck as he stood on the stoop.

The next time he knocked louder, but still no answer.  By now he was soaked

to the skin.  Desperately he pounded on the door.  At last the head of a

man appeared out of an upstairs window.

    "What do you want?" he asked gruffly.

    "My car broke down," said the traveler, "and I want to know if you

would let me stay here for the night."

    "Sure," replied the man. "If you want to stay there all night, it's

okay with me."


It wasn't exactly a divorce -- I was traded.

        -- Tim Conway


It's a funny thing that when a woman hasn't got anything

on earth to worry about, she goes off and gets married.


"It's men like him that give the Y chromosome a bad name."


It's not the inital skirt length, it's the upcreep.


It's not the men in my life, but the life in my men that counts.

        -- Mae West


It's the good girls who keep the diaries, the bad girls never have the time.

        -- Tallulah Bankhead


    It's the theory of Jess Birnbaum, of Time magazine, that women with

bad legs should stick to long skirts because they cover a multitude of shins.


    Joe sat as his dying wife's bedside.

    Her voice was little more than a whisper.

    "Joe, darling," she breathed, "I've got a confession to make

before I go.  I ... I'm the one who took the $10,000 from your safe...

I spent it on a fling with your best friend, Charles.  And it was I who

forced your mistress to leave the city.  And I am the one who reported

your income-tax evasion to the I.R.S..."

    "That's all right, dearest, don't give it a second thought,"

whispered Joe. "I'm the one who poisoned you."


Just as I cannot remember any time when I could not read and write, I cannot

remember any time when I did not exercise my imagination in daydreams about


        -- George Bernard Shaw


Kath: Can he be present at the birth of his child?

Ed: It's all any reasonable child can expect if the dad is present

    at the conception.

        -- Joe Orton, "Entertaining Mr. Sloane"


Keep a diary and one day it'll keep you.

        -- Mae West


Keep women you cannot.  Marry them and they come to hate the way you walk

across the room; remain their lover, and they jilt you at the end of six


        -- Moore


Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterwards.

        -- Benjamin Franklin


Kissing your hand may make you feel very good, but a diamond and

sapphire bracelet lasts for ever.

        -- Anita Loos, "Gentlemen Prefer Blondes"


Lady Nancy Astor:

    "Winston, if you were my husband, I'd put poison in your coffee."

Winston Churchill:

    "Nancy, if you were my wife, I'd drink it."


Lank: Here we go.  We're about to set a new record.

Earl: (to the crowd) How about a date?

Lank: We've done it.  Earl has set a new record.  Turned down by

      20,000 women.

        -- Lank and Earl


Large increases in cost with questionable increases in performance can

be tolerated only in race horses and women.

        -- Lord Kelvin


Let thy maid servant be faithful, strong, and homely.

        -- Benjamin Franklin


Let's just say that where a change was required, I adjusted.  In every

relationship that exists, people have to seek a way to survive.  If you

really care about the person, you do what's necessary, or that's the end.

For the first time, I found that I really could change, and the qualities

I most admired in myself I gave up.  I stopped being loud and bossy ...

Oh, all right.  I was still loud and bossy, but only behind his back.

        -- Kate Hepburn, on Tracy and Hepburn


Life begins at the centerfold and expands outward.

        -- Miss November, 1966


Life in this society being, at best, an utter bore and no aspect of society

being at all relevant to women, there remains to civic-minded responsible

thrill-seeking females only to overthrow the government, eliminate the money

system, institute complete automation and destroy the male sex.

        -- Valerie Solanas


Life Sucks.  Cynical, misanthropic male, 34, looking for soul mate but

certain not to find her.  Drop me a note.  I'll call you, we'll talk and

I'll ask you out to dinner where I'll probably spend more than I can

afford in a feeble attempt to impress you.  Then we'll realize we have

absolutely nothing in common and we'll go our separate ways, more

embittered and depressed than before (if such a thing is possible).


Life's too short to dance with ugly women.


Like all young men, you greatly exaggerate the difference between one

young woman and another.

        -- George Bernard Shaw, "Major Barbara"


Like the ski resort of girls looking for husbands and husbands looking

for girls, the situation is not as symmetrical as it might seem.

        -- Alan McKay


Little girls, like butterflies, need no excuse.

        -- Lazarus Long


Lonely men seek companionship.  Lonely women sit at home and wait.

They never meet.


Lots of girls can be had for a song.  Unfortunately, it often turns out to

be the wedding march.


Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing; a confusion of the real

with the ideal never goes unpunished.

        -- Goethe


Love is an obsessive delusion that is cured by marriage.

        -- Dr. Karl Bowman


Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another.

        -- H. L. Mencken


Love makes fools, marriage cuckolds, and patriotism malevolent imbeciles.

        -- Paul Leautaud, "Passe-temps"


Macho does not prove mucho.

        -- Zsa Zsa Gabor


Man and wife make one fool.


Many a man has fallen in love with a girl in a light so dim he would

not have chosen a suit by it.

        -- Maurice Chevalier


Many a man in love with a dimple makes the mistake of marrying the

whole girl.

        -- Stephen Leacock


Many a man who thinks he's going on a maiden voyage with

a woman finds out later that it was just a shake-down cruise.


Many a wife thinks her husband is the world's greatest lover.

But she can never catch him at it.


Many husbands go broke on the money their wives save on sales.


Marriage always demands the greatest understanding of the art of

insincerity possible between two human beings.

        -- Vicki Baum


Marriage causes dating problems.


Marriage is a ghastly public confession of a strictly private intention.


Marriage is a great institution -- but I'm not ready for an institution yet.

        -- Mae West


Marriage is a lot like the army, everyone complains, but you'd be

surprised at the large number that re-enlist.

        -- James Garner


Marriage is a romance in which the hero dies in the first chapter.


Marriage is a three ring circus: engagement ring, wedding ring, and suffering.

        -- Roger Price


Marriage is an institution in which two undertake to become one, and one

undertakes to become nothing.


Marriage is based on the theory that when a man discovers a brand of beer

exactly to his taste he should at once throw up his job and go to work

in the brewery.

        -- George Jean Nathan


Marriage is learning about women the hard way.


Marriage is like twirling a baton, turning handsprings, or eating with

chopsticks.  It looks easy until you try it.


Marriage is low down, but you spend the rest of your life paying for it.

        -- Baskins


Marriage is not merely sharing the fettucine, but sharing the

burden of finding the fettucine restaurant in the first place.

        -- Calvin Trillin


Marriage is the only adventure open to the cowardly.

        -- Voltaire


Marriage is the process of finding out what kind of man your wife would

have preferred.


Marriage is the waste-paper basket of the emotions.


Marriage, in life, is like a duel in the midst of a battle.

        -- Edmond About


Marriages are made in heaven and consummated on earth.

        -- John Lyly


Marry in haste and everyone starts counting the months.


Matrimony is the root of all evil.


Matrimony isn't a word, it's a sentence.


Men are always ready to respect anything that bores them.

        -- Marilyn Monroe


Men are those creatures with two legs and eight hands.

        -- Jayne Mansfield


Men aren't attracted to me by my mind.  They're attracted by what I

don't mind...

        -- Gypsy Rose Lee


Men have a much better time of it than women; for one thing they marry later;

for another thing they die earlier.

        -- H. L. Mencken


Men have as exaggerated an idea of their rights as women have of their wrongs.

        -- E. W. Howe


Men live for three things, fast cars, fast women and fast food.


Men never make passes at girls wearing glasses.

        -- Dorothy Parker


Men of quality are not afraid of women for equality.


Men say of women what pleases them; women do with men what pleases them.

        -- DeSegur


Men seldom show dimples to girls who have pimples.


Men still remember the first kiss after women have forgotten the last.


Men who cherish for women the highest respect are seldom popular with them.

        -- Joseph Addison


Men's magazines often feature pictures of naked ladies.  Women's magazines

also often feature pictures of naked ladies.  This is because the female

body is a beautiful work of art, while the male body is hairy and lumpy and

should not be seen by the light of day.

        -- Richard Roeper, "Men and Women Are Different"


Miguel Cervantes wrote Donkey Hote.  Milton wrote Paradise Lost, then his

wife died and he wrote Paradise Regained.


Moe:    Wanna play poker tonight?

Joe:    I can't. It's the kids' night out.

Moe:    So?

Joe:    I gotta stay home with the nurse.


Moe:    What did you give your wife for Valentine's Day?

Joe:    The usual gift -- she ate my heart out.


Money and women are the most sought after and the least known of any two

things we have.

        -- The Best of Will Rogers


Money is a powerful aphrodisiac.  But flowers work almost as well.

        -- Lazarus Long


Monogamy is the Western custom of one wife and hardly any mistresses.

        -- H. H. Munro


... most of us learned about love the hard way.  Even warnings are probably

useless, for somehow, despite the severest warnings of parents and friends,

hundreds, thousands of women have forgotten themselves at the last minute

and succumbed to the lies, promises, flatteries, or mere attentions of

lusting, lovely men, landing themselves in complicated predicaments from

which some of them never recovered during their entire lives.  And I am not

speaking only of your teenaged Midwesterners in 1958; I'm speaking of women

of every age in every city in every year.  The notorious sexual revolution

has saved no one from the pain and confusion of love.

        -- Alix Kates Shulman


My notion of a husband at forty is that a woman should be able to change him,

like a bank note, for two twenties.


Never accept an invitation from a stranger unless he gives you candy.

        -- Linda Festa


Never argue with a woman when she's tired -- or rested.


Never eat at a place called Mom's.  Never play cards with a man named Doc.

And never lie down with a woman who's got more troubles than you.

        -- Nelson Algren, "What Every Young Man Should Know"


Never go to bed mad.  Stay up and fight.

        -- Phyllis Diller, "Phyllis Diller's Housekeeping Hints"


Never sleep with a woman whose troubles are worse than your own.

        -- Nelson Algren


Never tell.  Not if you love your wife ... In fact, if your old lady walks

in on you, deny it.  Yeah.  Just flat out and she'll believe it: "I'm

tellin' ya.  This chick came downstairs with a sign around her neck `Lay

On Top Of Me Or I'll Die'.  I didn't know what I was gonna do..."

        -- Lenny Bruce


New Year's Eve is the time of year when a man most feels his age,

and his wife most often reminds him to act it.

        -- Webster's Unafraid Dictionary


No friendship is so cordial or so delicious as that of girl for girl;

no hatred so intense or immovable as that of woman for woman.

        -- Landor


No man can have a reasonable opinion of women until he has long lost

interest in hair restorers.

        -- Austin O'Malley


No modern woman with a grain of sense ever sends little notes to an

unmarried man -- not until she is married, anyway.

        -- Arthur Binstead


No one knows like a woman how to say things that are at once gentle and deep.

        -- Hugo


No self-made man ever did such a good job that some woman didn't

want to make some alterations.

        -- Kim Hubbard


No woman can call herself free until she can choose consciously whether

she will or will not be a mother.

        -- Margaret H. Sanger


No woman can endure a gambling husband, unless he is a steady winner.

        -- Lord Thomas Dewar


No woman ever falls in love with a man unless she has a better opinion of

him than he deserves.

        -- Edgar Watson Howe


Nobody really knows what happiness is, until they're married.

And then it's too late.


Not every problem someone has with his girlfriend is necessarily due to

the capitalist mode of production.

        -- Herbert Marcuse


Of all the animals, the boy is the most unmanageable.

        -- Plato


Of course a platonic relationship is possible -- but only between

husband and wife.


Once a woman has given you her heart you can never get rid of the rest of her.

        -- Vanbrugh


    Once upon a time there was a beautiful young girl taking a stroll

through the woods.  All at once she saw an extremely ugly bull frog seated

on a log and to her amazement the frog spoke to her.  "Maiden," croaked the

frog, "would you do me a favor?  This will be hard for you to believe, but

I was once a handsome, charming prince and then a mean, ugly old witch cast

a spell over me and turned me into a frog."

    "Oh, what a pity!", exclaimed the girl.  "I'll do anything I can to

help you break such a spell."

    "Well," replied the frog, "the only way that this spell can be

taken away is for some lovely young woman to take me home and let me spend

the night under her pillow."

    The young girl took the ugly frog home and placed him beneath her

pillow that night when she retired.  When she awoke the next morning, sure

enough, there beside her in bed was a very young, handsome man, clearly of

royal blood.  And so they lived happily ever after, except that to this day

her father and mother still don't believe her story.


    Once upon a time there were three brothers who were knights

in a certain kingdom.  And, there was a Princess in a neighboring kingdom

who was of marriageable age.  Well, one day, in full armour, their horses,

and their page, the three brothers set off to see if one of them could

win her hand.  The road was long and there were many obstacles along the

way, robbers to be overcome, hard terrain to cross.  As they coped with

each obstacle they became more and more disgusted with their page.  He was

not only inept, he was a coward, he could not handle the horses, he was,

in short, a complete flop.  When they arrived at the court of the kingdom,

they found that they were expected to present the Princess with some

treasure.  The two older brothers were discouraged, since they had not

thought of this and were unprepared.  The youngest, however, had the

answer:  Promise her anything, but give her our page.


    One evening he spoke.  Sitting at her feet, his face raised to her,

he allowed his soul to be heard.  "My darling, anything you wish, anything

I am, anything I can ever be...  That's what I want to offer you -- not the

things I'll get for you, but the thing in me that will make me able to get

them.  That thing -- a man can't renounce it -- but I want to renounce it -- so

that it will be yours -- so that it will be in your service -- only for you."

    The girl smiled and asked: "Do you think I'm prettier than Maggie


    He got up.  He said nothing and walked out of the house.  He never

saw that girl again.  Gail Wynand, who prided himself on never needing a

lesson twice, did not fall in love again in the years that followed.

        -- Ayn Rand, "The Fountainhead"


One girl can be pretty -- but a dozen are only a chorus.

        -- F. Scott Fitzgerald, "The Last Tycoon"


One is not born a woman, one becomes one.

        -- Simone de Beauvoir


One man's folly is another man's wife.

        -- Helen Rowland


One should always be in love.  That is the reason one should never marry.

        -- Oscar Wilde


Only two groups of people fall for flattery -- men and women.


    People of all sorts of genders are reporting great difficulty,

these days, in selecting the proper words to refer to those of the female


    "Lady," "woman," and "girl" are all perfectly good words, but

misapplying them can earn one anything from the charge of vulgarity to a good

swift smack.  We are messing here with matters of deference, condescension,

respect, bigotry, and two vague concepts, age and rank.  It is troubling

enough to get straight who is really what.  Those who deliberately misuse

the terms in a misbegotten attempt at flattery are asking for it.

    A woman is any grown-up female person.  A girl is the un-grown-up

version.  If you call a wee thing with chubby cheeks and pink hair ribbons a

"woman," you will probably not get into trouble, and if you do, you will be

able to handle it because she will be under three feet tall.  However, if you

call a grown-up by a child's name for the sake of implying that she has a

youthful body, you are also implying that she has a brain to match.


Physically there is nothing to distinguish human society from the

farm-yard except that children are more troublesome and costly than

chickens and women are not so completely enslaved as farm stock.

        -- George Bernard Shaw, "Getting Married"


Rich bachelors should be heavily taxed.  It is not fair that some men

should be happier than others.

        -- Oscar Wilde


Sally:    C'mon, Ted, all I'm asking you to do is share your feelings

    with me.

Ted:    ALL?  Do you realize what you're asking?  Men aren't trained

    to share.  We're trained to protect ourselves by not

    letting anyone too close.  Good grief, if I go around

    sharing everything with you, you could hang me out to dry.

Sally:    It's called "trust," Ted.

Ted:    "Sharing"?  "Trust"?  You're really asking me to sail into

    uncharted waters here.

        -- Sally Forth


Scientists still know less about what attracts men than they do about

what attracts mosquitoes.

        -- Dr. Joyce Brothers,

        "What Every Woman Should Know About Men"


She always believed in the old adage -- leave them while you're looking good.

        -- Anita Loos, "Gentlemen Prefer Blondes"


She been married so many times she got rice marks all over her face.

        -- Tom Waits


She is descended from a long line that her mother listened to.

        -- Gypsy Rose Lee


She just came in, pounced around this thing with me for a few years, enjoyed

herself, gave it a sort of beautiful quality and left.  Excited a few men

in the meantime.

        -- Patrick Macnee, reminiscing on Diana Rigg's

           involvement in "The Avengers".


She liked him; he was a man of many qualities, even if most of them were bad.


She missed an invaluable opportunity to give him a look that you could

have poured on a waffle ...


She's learned to say things with her eyes that others waste time putting

into words.


She's so tough she won't take 'yes' for an answer.


She's the kind of girl who climbed the ladder of success wrong by wrong.

        -- Mae West


So many beautiful women and so little time.

        -- John Barrymore


So many men; so little time.


So many women; so little nerve.


So many women; so little time!


    "So you don't have to, Cindy, but I was wondering if you might

want to go to someplace, you know, with me, sometime."

    "Well, I can think of a lot of worse things, David."

    "Friday, then?"

    "Why not, David, it might even be fun."

        -- Dating in Minnesota


Some husbands are living proof that a woman can take a joke.


Some marriages are made in heaven -- but so are thunder and lightning.


Some men are all right in their place -- if they only the knew the right places!

        -- Mae West


Some men are so interested in their wives' continued happiness that they

hire detectives to find out the reason for it.


Some men are so macho they'll get you pregnant just to kill a rabbit.

        -- Maureen Murphy


Some men feel that the only thing they owe the woman who marries them

is a grudge.

        -- Helen Rowland


Some of us are becoming the men we wanted to marry.

        -- Gloria Steinem


Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

        -- Sigmund Freud


Sometimes, when I think of what that girl means to me, it's all I can do

to keep from telling her.

        -- Andy Capp


Stanford women are responsible for the success of many Stanford men:

they give them "just one more reason" to stay in and study every night.


Take my word for it, the silliest woman can manage a clever man, but it

needs a very clever woman to manage a fool.

        -- Kipling


Tehee quod she, and clapte the wyndow to.

        -- Geoffrey Chaucer


That woman speaks eight languages and can't say "no" in any of them.

        -- Dorothy Parker


The advantage of being celibate is that when one sees a pretty girl one

does not need to grieve over having an ugly one back home.

        -- Paul Leautaud, "Propos d'un jour"


The anger of a woman is the greatest evil with which you can threaten your


        -- Bonnard


The average girl would rather have beauty than brains because she knows

that the average man can see much better than he can think.

        -- Ladies' Home Journal


The average woman must inevitably view her actual husband with a certain

disdain; he is anything but her ideal.  In consequence, she cannot help

feeling that her children are cruelly handicapped by the fact that he is

their father.

        -- H. L. Mencken


The best man for the job is often a woman.


The best thing about being bald is, that, when unexpected company arrives,

all you have to do is straighten your tie.


The big question is why in the course of evolution the males permitted

themselves to be so totally eclipsed by the females.  Why do they tolerate

this total subservience, this wretched existence as outcasts who are

hungry all the time?


The chains of marriage are so heavy that it takes two to carry them, and

sometimes three.

        -- Alexandre Dumas


The days just prior to marriage are like a snappy introduction to a

tedious book.


    The defense attorney was hammering away at the plaintiff:

"You claim," he jeered, "that my client came at you with a broken bottle

in his hand.  But is it not true, that you had something in YOUR hand?"

    "Yes," the man admitted, "his wife. Very charming, of course,

but not much good in a fight."


The difference between legal separation and divorce is that legal

separation gives the man time to hide his money.


The duration of passion is proportionate with the original resistance

of the woman.

        -- Honor'e DeBalzac


The eternal feminine draws us upward.

        -- Goethe


The first marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence,

and the second the triumph of hope over experience.


The gentlemen looked one another over with microscopic carelessness.


The girl who remembers her first kiss now has a daughter who can't even

remember her first husband.


The girl who stoops to conquer usually wears a low-cut dress.


The girl who swears no one has ever made love to her has a right to swear.

        -- Sophia Loren


The gods gave man fire and he invented fire engines.  They gave him

love and he invented marriage.


The happiest time of a person's life is after his first divorce.

        -- J. K. Galbraith


The heaviest object in the world is the body of the woman you have ceased

to love.

        -- Marquis de Lac de Clapiers Vauvenargues


The honeymoon is not actually over until we cease to stifle our sighs

and begin to stifle our yawns.

        -- Helen Rowland


The honeymoon is over when he phones to say he'll be late for supper and

she's already left a note that it's in the refrigerator.

        -- Bill Lawrence


The husband who doesn't tell his wife everything probably reasons that

what she doesn't know won't hurt him.

        -- Leo J. Burke


The little girl expects no declaration of tenderness from her doll.

She loves it -- and that's all.  It is thus that we should love.

        -- DeGourmont


The majority of husbands remind me of an orangutang trying to play the violin.

        -- Honor'e DeBalzac


The man who understands one woman is qualified to understand pretty well


        -- Yeats


The mature bohemian is one whose woman works full time.


The most common form of marriage proposal: "YOU'RE WHAT!?"


The most dangerous food is wedding cake.

        -- American proverb


The most difficult years of marriage are those following the wedding.


The most happy marriage I can imagine to myself would be the union

of a deaf man to a blind woman.

        -- Samuel Taylor Coleridge


The most important thing in a relationship between a man and a woman

is that one of them be good at taking orders.

        -- Linda Festa


The most popular labor-saving device today is still a husband with money.

        -- Joey Adams, "Cindy and I"


The mother of the year should be a sterilized woman with two adopted children.

        -- Paul Ehrlich


The one charm of marriage is that it makes a life of deception a neccessity.

        -- Oscar Wilde


The only real argument for marriage is that it remains the best method

for getting acquainted.

        -- Heywood Broun


The only really masterful noise a man makes in a house is the noise

of his key, when he is still on the landing, fumbling for the lock.

        -- Colette


The perfect man is the true partner.  Not a bed partner nor a fun partner,

but a man who will shoulder burdens equally with [you] and possess that

quality of joy.

        -- Erica Jong


The person who marries for money usually earns every penny of it.


The prettiest women are almost always the most boring, and that is why

some people feel there is no God.

        -- Woody Allen, "Without Feathers"


The Ruffed Pandanga of Borneo and Rotherham spreads out his feathers in

his courtship dance and imitates Winston Churchill and Tommy Cooper on

one leg.  The padanga is dying out because the female padanga doesn't

take it too seriously.

        -- Mike Harding, "The Armchair Anarchist's Almanac"


The six great gifts of an Irish girl are beauty, soft voice, sweet speech,

wisdom, needlework, and chastity.

        -- Theodore Roosevelt, 1907


The surest sign that a man is in love is when he divorces his wife.


The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing

-- and then marry him.

        -- Cher


The truth about a woman often lasts longer than the woman is true.


The two things that can get you into trouble quicker than anything else

are fast women and slow horses.


The way to fight a woman is with your hat.  Grab it and run.


The woman you buy -- and she is the least expensive -- takes a great

deal of money.  The woman who gives herself takes all your time.

        -- Balzac


There are a few things that never go out of style, and a feminine woman

is one of them.

        -- Ralston


There are four stages to a marriage.  First there's the affair, then there's

the marriage, then children and finally the fourth stage, without which you

cannot know a woman, the divorce.

        -- Norman Mailer


There are three things I have always loved and never understood --

art, music, and women.


There are three things men can do with women: love them, suffer for them,

or turn them into literature.

        -- Stephen Stills


There are two times when a man doesn't understand a woman -- before

marriage and after marriage.


There goes the good time that was had by all.

        -- Bette Davis, remarking on a passing starlet


There is a vast difference between the savage and civilized man, but it

is never apparent to their wives until after breakfast.

        -- Helen Rowland


There is no realizable power that man cannot, in time, fashion the tools

to attain, nor any power so secure that the naked ape will not abuse it.

So it is written in the genetic cards -- only physics and war hold him in

check.  And also the wife who wants him home by five, of course.

        -- Encyclopadia Apocryphia, 1990 ed.


There is no such thing as an ugly woman -- there are only the ones who do

not know how to make themselves attractive.

        -- Christian Dior


There is not much to choose between a woman who deceives us for another,

and a woman who deceives another for ourselves.

        -- Augier


There is only one way to console a widow.  But remember the risk.

        -- Robert Heinlein


There's nothing like a girl with a plunging neckline to keep a man on his toes.


There's nothing like a good dose of another woman to make a man appreciate

his wife.

        -- Clare Booth Luce


There's nothing like good food, good wine, and a bad girl.


There's one consolation about matrimony.  When you look around you can

always see somebody who did worse.

        -- Warren H. Goldsmith


There's one fool at least in every married couple.


There's only one way to have a happy marriage and as soon as I learn

what it is I'll get married again.

        -- Clint Eastwood


There's too much beauty upon this earth for lonely men to bear.

        -- Richard Le Gallienne


This guy runs into his house and yells to his wife, "Kathy, pack up your

bags!  I just won the California lottery!"

    "Honey!", Kathy exclaims, "Shall I pack for warm weather or cold?"

    "I don't care," responds the husband. "just so long as you're out

of the house by dinner!"


'Tis more blessed to give than receive; for example, wedding presents.

        -- H. L. Mencken


To be beautiful is enough! if a woman can do that well who should demand

more from her?  You don't want a rose to sing.

        -- Thackeray


To be considered successful, a woman must be much better at her job

than a man would have to be.  Fortunately, this isn't difficult.


To be successful, a woman has to be much better at her job than a man.

        -- Golda Meir


To err is human -- but it feels divine.

        -- Mae West


To find out a girl's faults, praise her to her girl friends.

        -- Benjamin Franklin


To many, total abstinence is easier than perfect moderation.

        -- St. Augustine


To our sweethearts and wives.  May they never meet.

        -- 19th century toast


Today when a man gets married he gets a home, a housekeeper, a cook, a cheering

squad and another paycheck.  When a woman marries, she gets a boarder.


Too much of a good thing is WONDERFUL.

        -- Mae West


Trust your husband, adore your husband, and get as much as you can in your

own name.

        -- Joan Rivers


Twenty years of romance make a woman look like a ruin; but twenty years of

marriage make her something like a public building.

        -- Oscar Wilde


Two sure ways to tell a REALLY sexy man; the first is, he has a bad memory.

I forget the second.


Until Eve arrived, this was a man's world.

        -- Richard Armour


Valerie: Aww, Tom, you're going maudlin on me ...

Tom:     I reserve the right to wax maudlin as I wane eloquent ...

        -- Tom Chapin


Very few modern women either like or desire marriage, especially after the

ceremony has been performed.  Primarily women wish attention and affection.

Matrimony is something they accept when there is no alternative.  Really,

it is a waste of time, and hazardous, to marry them.  It leaves one open

to a rival.  Husbands, good or bad, always have rivals.  Lovers, never.

        -- Helen Lawrenson, "Esquire"


We were happily married for eight months.  Unfortunately, we were married

for four and a half years.

        -- Nick Faldo


We're all looking for a woman who can sit in a mini-skirt and talk

philosophy, executing both with confidence and style.


Wedding is destiny, and hanging likewise.

        -- John Heywood


Wedding rings are the world's smallest handcuffs.


Well, it's hard for a mere man to believe that woman doesn't have equal rights.

        -- Dwight D. Eisenhower


What a misfortune to be a woman!  And yet, the worst misfortune is not to

understand what a misfortune it is.

        -- Kierkegaard, 1813-1855.


What do you give a man who has everything?  Penicillin.

        -- Jerry Lester


    "What do you give a man who has everything?" the pretty teenager

asked her mother.

    "Encouragement, dear," she replied.


What nonsense people talk about happy marriages!  A man can be happy with

any woman so long as he doesn't love her.

        -- Oscar Wilde


What passes for woman's intuition is often nothing more than man's


        -- George Nathan


What publishers are looking for these days isn't radical feminism.  It's

corporate feminism -- a brand of feminism designed to sell books and

magazines, three-piece suits, airline tickets, Scotch, cigarettes and,

most important, corporate America's message, which runs: Yes, women were

discriminated against in the past, but that unfortunate mistake has been

remedied; now every woman can attain wealth, prestige and power by dint

of individual rather than collective effort.

        -- Susan Gordon


Whatever women do they must do twice as well as men to be thought half

as good.  Luckily this is not difficult.

        -- Charlotte Whitton


When a girl can read the handwriting on the wall, she may be in the wrong

rest room.


When a girl marries she exchanges the attentions of many men for the

inattentions of one.

        -- Helen Rowland


When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him

keep her.

        -- Sacha Guitry


When a woman gives me a present I have always two surprises:

first is the present, and afterward, having to pay for it.

        -- Donnay


When a woman marries again it is because she detested her first husband.

When a man marries again, it is because he adored his first wife.

        -- Oscar Wilde


When choosing between two evils, I always like to take the one I've never

tried before.

        -- Mae West, "Klondike Annie"


When God created two sexes, he may have been overdoing it.

        -- Charles Merrill Smith


When God saw how faulty was man He tried again and made woman.  As to

why he then stopped there are two opinions.  One of them is woman's.

        -- DeGourmont


When I was a young man, I vowed never to marry until I found the ideal

woman.  Well, I found her -- but alas, she was waiting for the ideal man.

        -- Robert Schuman


When I'm good, I'm great; but when I'm bad, I'm better.

        -- Mae West


When it comes to broken marriages most husbands will split the blame --

half his wife's fault, and half her mother's.


When Marriage is Outlawed, Only Outlaws will have Inlaws.


When my freshman roommate at Cornell found out I was Jewish, she was, at

her request, moved to a different room.  She told me she didn't think she

had ever seen a Jew before.  My only response was to begin wearing a

small Star of David on a chain around my neck.  I had not become a more

observing Jew; rather, discovering that the label of Jew was offensive to

others made me want to let people know who I was and what I believed in.

Similarly, after talking to these young women -- one of whom told me that

she didn't think she had ever met a feminist -- I've taken to identifying

myself as a feminist in the most unlikely of situations.

        -- Susan Bolotin, "Voices From the Post-Feminist Generation"


When one knows women one pities men, but when one studies men,

one excuses women.

        -- Horne Tooke


When the candles are out all women are fair.

        -- Plutarch


When the saleman's car broke down, he walked to the nearest farmhouse to ask

if he could stay the night.  The farmer agreed to put him up.  "I live alone,"

he continued, "you can have the bedroom at the top of the stairs, to the


    "Oh, never mind," the disappointed salesman said. "I think I'm in

the wrong joke."


When there is an old maid in the house, a watch dog is unnecessary.

        -- Balzac


When two people are under the influence of the most violent, most insane,

most delusive, and most transient of passions, they are required to swear

that they will remain in that excited, abnormal, and exhausting condition

continuously until death do them part.

        -- George Bernard Shaw


When women kiss it always reminds one of prize fighters shaking hands.

        -- H. L. Mencken, "Sententiae"


When women love us, they forgive us everything, even our crimes; when they do

not love us, they give us credit for nothing, not even our virtues.

        -- Honor'e de Balzac


When you're bored with yourself, marry, and be bored with someone else.

        -- David Pryce-Jones


When you're married to someone, they take you for granted ... when

you're living with someone it's fantastic ... they're so frightened

of losing you they've got to keep you satisfied all the time.

        -- Nell Dunn, "Poor Cow"


Whenever I date a guy, I think, is this the man I want my children

to spend their weekends with?

        -- Rita Rudner


Where's the man could ease a heart like a satin gown?

        -- Dorothy Parker, "The Satin Dress"


Why a man would want a wife is a big mystery to some people.  Why a man

would want *___two* wives is a bigamystery.


Why isn't there some cheap and easy way to prove how much she means to me?


Why won't you let me kiss you goodnight?  Is it something I said?

        -- Tom Ryan


With the end of the football season, a star player for the college team

celebrated the relaxation of team curfew by attending a late-night campus

party.  Soon after arriving, he became captivated by a beautiful coed and

eased into a conversation with her by asking if she met many dates at


    "Oh, I have a three point eight, so I'm much more attracted to the

strong academic types than to the dumb party animals," she said.  "What's

your G.P.A.?"

    Grinning ear to ear, the jock boasted, "I get about twenty-five in

the city and forty on the highway."


Woman inspires us to great things, and prevents us from achieving them.

        -- Dumas


Woman was God's second mistake.

        -- Nietzsche


Woman was taken out of man -- not out of his head, to rule over him; nor

out of his feet, to be trampled under by him; but out of his side, to be

equal to him -- under his arm, that he might protect her, and near his heart

that he might love her.

        -- Henry


Woman's advice has little value, but he who won't take it is a fool.

        -- Cervantes


Women are all alike.  When they're maids they're mild as milk: once make 'em

wives, and they lean their backs against their marriage certificates, and

defy you.

        -- Jerrold


Women are always anxious to urge bachelors to matrimony; is it from charity,

or revenge?

        -- Gustave Vapereau


Women are just like men, only different.


Women are like elephants to me: I like to look at them, but I wouldn't

want to own one.

        -- W. C. Fields


Women are not much, but they are the best other sex we have.

        -- Herold


Women are wiser than men because they know less and understand more.

        -- Stephens


Women aren't as mere as they used to be.

        -- Pogo


Women can keep a secret just as well as men, but it takes more of them

to do it.


Women complain about sex more than men.  Their gripes fall into two

categories: (1) Not enough and (2) Too much.

        -- Ann Landers


Women give themselves to God when the Devil wants nothing more to do with them.

        -- Arnould


Women give to men the very gold of their lives.  Possibly; but they

invariably want it back in such very small change.

        -- Oscar Wilde


Women in love consist of a little sighing, a little crying, a little dying

-- and a good deal of lying.

        -- Ansey


Women reason with the heart and are much less often wrong than men who

reason with the head.

        -- DeLescure


Women sometimes forgive a man who forces the opportunity, but never a man

who misses one.

        -- Charles De Talleyrand-Perigord


Women treat us just as humanity treats its gods.  They worship us and are

always bothering us to do something for them.

        -- Oscar Wilde


Women want their men to be cops.  They want you to punish them and tell

them what the limits are.  The only thing that women hate worse from a man

than being slapped is when you get on your knees and say you're sorry.

        -- Mort Sahl


Women waste men's lives and think they have indemnified them by a few

gracious words.

        -- Honor'e de Balzac


Women who want to be equal to men lack imagination.


Women wish to be loved without a why or a wherefore; not because they are

pretty, or good, or well-bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because

they are themselves.

        -- Amiel


Women's virtue is man's greatest invention.

        -- Cornelia Otis Skinner


Women, deceived by men, want to marry them; it is a kind of revenge

as good as any other.

        -- Philippe De Remi


Women, when they are not in love, have all the cold blood of an experienced


        -- Honor'e de Balzac


Women, when they have made a sheep of a man, always tell him that he is a

lion with a will of iron.

        -- Honor'e de Balzac


    "You are *so* lovely."


    "Yes!  And you take a compliment, too!  I like that in a goddess."


You are not permitted to kill a woman who has wronged you, but nothing

forbids you to reflect that she is growing older every minute.  You are

avenged fourteen hundred and forty times a day.

        -- Ambrose Bierce


You ask what a nice girl will do?  She won't give an inch, but she won't

say no.

        -- Marcus Valerius Martialis


You can have a dog as a friend.  You can have whiskey as a friend.  But

if you have a woman as a friend, you're going to wind up drunk and kissing

your dog.

        -- foolin' around


You can never trust a woman; she may be true to you.


You can't kiss a girl unexpectedly -- only sooner than she thought you would.


You have only to mumble a few words in church to get married and few words

in your sleep to get divorced.


You just know when a relationship is about to end.  My girlfriend called me

at work and asked me how you change a lightbulb in the bathroom.  "It's very

simple," I said. "You start by filling up the bathtub with water..."


You know what we can be like:  See a guy and think he's cute one minute, the

next minute our brains have us married with kids, the following minute we see

him having an extramarital affair.  By the time someone says "I'd like you to

meet Cecil," we shout, "You're late again with the child support!"

        -- Cynthia Heimel, "A Girl's Guide to Chaos"


You know you're getting old when you're Dad, and you're measuring your daughter

for camp clothes, and there are certain measurements only her mother is allowed

to take.


You know, of course, that the Tasmanians, who never committed adultery,

are now extinct.

        -- M. Somerset Maugham


You lived with a man who wore white belts?  Laura, I'm disappointed in you.

        -- Remington Steele


You think Oedipus had a problem -- Adam was Eve's mother.


"You're just the sort of person I imagined marrying, when I was little...

except, y'know, not green... and without all the patches of fungus."

        -- Swamp Thing


    Young men and young women may work systematically six days in the

week and rise fresh in the morning, but let them attend modern dances for

only a few hours each evening and see what happens.  The Waltz, Polka,

Gallop and other dances of the same kind will be disastrous in their effects

to both sexes.  Health and vigor will vanish like the dew before the sun.

    It is not the extraordinary exercise which harms the dancer, but

rather the coming into close contact with the opposite sex.  It is the

fury of lust craving incessantly for more pleasure that undermines the

soul, the body, the sinews and nerves.  Experience and statistics show

beyond doubt that passionate excessive dancing girls can hardly reach

twenty-five years of age and men thirty-one.  Even if they reached that

age they will in most instances be broken in health physically and morally.

This is the claim of prominent physicians in this country.

        -- Quote from a 1910 periodical


Young men want to be faithful and are not; old men want to be faithless and


        -- Oscar Wilde


Youth had been a habit of hers so long that she could not part with it.



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